domenica, agosto 07, 2005
:: grey ::the world is too grey. light, dark, ash and clay;
nothing clear cut, like black and white.
a great example would be friendship. how far and how deep does the trust extend? even between bosom friends? how honest are we with each other? how loyal and how faithful? how many promises are kept?
i can safely say, i've never really been gut-wrenchingly, fully honest to any of my friends...
'all throughout history, the loneliest people were the ones who always spoke their truth...'
i know one secret, one per friend i have... and if were told to the corresponding friends, would destroy the friendships forever. therefore, i think i can conclude that...
friendship is not about being tactlessly honest or piercingly straightfoward, it's about how to temper the ugly truths, so as to soften the impact, or how to put the inevitably harsh words into something more mellow, without changing the original meaning.
most importantly, any friendship is fundamentally flawed if... one of the other does not live by this:
friendship is about how to live with other people, without the notion of using them for your own advantage.
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